"My horse is sweeter than your horse."
In fact, they are some of the strongest people. Ruled by the Moon, they are subject to emotion ebs and flows. They live in a world of waxing and waning, and make it through proudly and smoothly. They’ve learned that the best way to handle their emotions is by handling them; letting them out. So they laugh with joy, tearfully mourn their sorrows, and explosively express their anger.
Cancer: Andrew, the sympathetic homebody, a follower of John the Baptist, whose first thought when he discovered the Messiah was to run quickly and fetch his brother Simon. (Initiating: sympathetic)
Andrew, brother of Simon called Peter, the fisherman, is thought to have been the Cancer. A loner, and homebody; dependent upon his family. Upon meeting the Messiah as a follower of John the Baptist, his first thoughts were to share the news with his brother.
He first findeth his own brother Simon, and saith unto him, We have found the Messias, which is, being interpreted, the Christ. And he brought him to Jesus… John 1:41-42
Much like the sign of Cancer, Andrew was not one to lead. Jesus told him “Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men.” Andrew was the sympathetic disciple of the lot. Cancerians are seen as the mothers, the sensitive men, the domestic being of the zodiac. They have a strong attachment or loyalty they feel they owe to their family, as well as all others. Always concerned with the well being of everyone else.
If you want to attract a Cancer lover you’ll need to connect with their feelings and emotions. To do this you will need to become their friend first before they can open up enough to trust you with their delicate heart.
Try wearing something in the color silver to attract their attention. The color silver connects with the emotions of a Cancer lover. Jewelry featuring a crescent moon is also very appealing to a Cancerian. If you can woo a Cancerian under a full moon you will almost certainly be guaranteed success.
To keep your Cancer lover happy, secure and satisfied you’ll need to show them loving and caring attention. Although they are the most caring, considerate and loving of all the Star Signs, they also are the neediest in terms of receiving love.
Coming from the element of water, Cancerians are naturally romantic and sensitive. Add to this the fact that they are ruled by the Moon and you have romance worthy of a romantic novel. You will need to keep this romance alive if you are to succeed in a long term relationship with a Cancerian. Regular candlelit dinners, silky lingerie and surprise gifts are the way to a Cancerians heart. And never, never, never forget their birthday, anniversary or Valentine’s day
As a Cancerian you crave the closeness and intimacy of a committed relationship. And as home and family mean everything to you; your lover will need to be accepted by your family.
You love to nurture, care for and look after a lover. Be careful not to smoother them with too much affection and over the top attention, though. Your lover already has a mother – you don’t need to replace her!
As you are strongly psychic you can often sense the emotions and thoughts of a lover. This ability to almost read their minds assists you further in being an attentive lover.
Being in love with you Cancer can be suffocating for some people but for others the attention, love and loyalty you can give will be just what they are looking for.
When Cancers are Perceiving Types, they elect to act in situations based their intuition. This can cause them to either; take a significant amount of time trying to “feel” the situation out, or act quickly based on their gut instinct.
Due to their reliance on their feelings, their productivity coincides with their emotional ebb and flow.