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In bed Pisces men are the ultimate romantics and make erotic lovers always favoring the subtle over the direct, and the unspoken over the blatant. Their fantasies can be an ongoing inspiration.
For Pisces, who practically live and breathe emotion, sex will be about connecting with their partner in what feels, to them, like a spiritual way. They’ll invest themselves fully, and can be rather selfless lovers, wanting to please their partner any way they can.
Aquarians tend to be very uninhibited lovers, rarely having much concern for the normal or expected. Passionate and understanding they have a love for exploring and experimenting with the unknown.
Emotionally detached in day-to-day life, this may transfer into the bedroom. They may see sex as simply a physical act, and lack the emotionally investment that other signs have, which may not be for some. However, what they lack in emotional investment, they make up with enthusiasm and creativity.
Your Capricorn man is likely to be a very adventurous lover, which may come as a surprise when compared to his otherwise restrained and stand-offish exterior. Contrary to his cool demeanor, he is remarkably playful in bed, and will prefer fun’ sex to the heavy or serious. He will also enjoy laughing in bed, and appreciate a sense of humor. Don’t be surprised if he suggests making love at either your place of work or his, it seems to be a common fantasy with Capricorns!
Being highly physical he is likely to associate love with sex, or at least more so than most people do. Bold and passionate, he is also likely to be very open and direct sexually.
Like all other aspects of life, Sagittarius will like to explore. While he may find enjoyment in certain things, he can grow bored with repetition. To counteract this, he’ll always mix things up, whether that’s subtle or otherwise. Suggest a new idea, and you’ll pique his interest right away.
You can call your Scorpio man many things, but prudish or unsexy will never be amongst them! Coupled with his powerful imagination, the possibilities for experimenting are almost endless with this man, though feedback might not be very forthcoming.
In typical Scorpio style he is more likely to experiment than to offer any overly strong preference of his own, settling instead on something he discovers you really enjoy. Sex is another area where creating and absorbing your emotions is often as important to Scorpio as the act itself. It probably goes without saying that Scorpio scores the highest for sexual chemistry with many other star signs!
Libra is refined in every sense of the word. Take the time to set the mood, and make an extra effort to look stunning. Nice jewelry and perfume are appreciated and noticed. Lingerie should be classy rather than brazen. And when you undress leave the jewelry on. More than men of other signs Libras often appreciate the subtle. To continue the example, when you’re at a fine restaurant wear jewelry which matches your lingerie but clashes with your dress. Once he realizes later, the gesture will hit a cord with him on multiple levels.
Slow, sophisticated and seductive, he makes love both emotionally and physically, with an emphasis on quality over quantity. Foreplay is particularly important to Libras, who tend to be very skillful at it. Don’t be surprised if he’s a world class kisser.
Virgos are discreet when it comes to sex, often offering subtle and indirect comments rather than anything too blatant or vulgar.
If you have a particularly hesitant Virgo then it’s worth noting he may be more comfortable being asked to do something rather than initiating sexual acts himself the first time or two. In these cases the ‘cleaner’ you can keep his conscience, the less inhibited he will be in the long term.
This is a person who takes feedback to heart, so it’s also worth noting that criticism can do a lot of harm, while encouragement can pay big dividends. Overall, Virgo are often more comfortable with a confident lover at the start of a relationship, though that soon changes as they get more comfortable.
Leo’s generally have a strong sex drive, and together with their high charisma this can lead to having many lovers until they find the right one and settle down. As in all things, Leos like to be dramatic, and like to tease and play games. They’re adventurous lovers, and as a rule the more outrageous the activity the better, as long as there’s some element of competition or playfulness. Tease, tease, and tease some more!
In line with the comments on shifting moods, sex with a Cancer can be highly variable and dynamic. If you’re in-tune with him this can make for a fantastic range of lovemaking styles, though often with an underlying romantic current and flavor. A skilled partner can use that emotional intensity to great advantage. An overly lazy or selfish partner may find it not so appealing.
Be as adventurous as you like! Your Gemini appreciates variety, and is a good choice to experiment with. He will prefer sex being somewhat unpredictable or varied. In the long term this can be a challenge for those leaning in other directions.
One thing to know is that in some ways he enjoys the theory more than the practice and has a good imagination. If you like sex once a week on Mondays at 10pm and only in the missionary position, you can still keep things unpredictable by talking about wild and unusual ideas. Don’t worry, he won’t hold you to any of it, so be as outrageous as you like to keep him guessing. It’s the mental stimulation more than the physical which is important.
Taurus is likely to be sexually straightforward, and generally not interested in fantasies, role playing or talking dirty. Why not? Because he doesn’t need those gimmicks!
Words such as “sensuous” and “wholesome” often sound boring when describing sex, but it’s the difference between fast food and a steak dinner… it may not have the glossy picture, but it’s a lot more satisfying. Typically a gentle and tender lover, his relative shyness for experimenting in the bedroom also makes it that much more fun to try and corrupt him!… Now that’s a win:win!
Aries sexuality isn’t very subtle or romantic when compared to some others signs. More of a mental than emotional person, they’re more likely to be turned on by stimulating conversation than by gazing at the moon and whispering sweet nothings. Don’t waste your time reciting love poetry or sonnets on this one! When they want something they usually want it ‘now’ - so expect several passionate quickies in preference to an epic or sensual love making session with incense and candles.
Aries often prefer to initiate sex. To abuse this fact, master the art of turning your Aries on while you yourself appear indifferent or uninterested! Women dating Aries men have a big advantage in this area - the more timid, innocent and virginal you can look (whilst being outrageously sexy of course) the more you’ll have your Aries man drooling. Try it.
Never afraid of taking a risk Aries are typically willing to experiment with most things at least once sexually - particularly if presented as a dare or challenge.
Equally they do best with someone with a similarly open mind. Aries is more dominant in the bedroom than most other signs, though don’t be mistaken into thinking they like it that way all the time - they usually prefer a partner who wrestles for control. Pun intended. Provide your Aries with a competitive playmate and they’ll love you long time.
Straight forward in most things, this isn’t a sign which normally plays mind games with people. To a large degree ‘what you see is what you get’ with Aries, and along these lines compliments are best kept direct, blunt and to the point.