Pisces men are more romantic than most and typically when they fall in love they fall hard. This can often make them somewhat shy initially and therefore hard to read. The clues are more subtle than for most other signs, and your own intuition will determine how many you notice. If you aren’t the intuitive type then you may have to just ask! One common side effect of this is that Pisces often date more outgoing partners, as relationships with those who are equally shy and reserved often take a very long time to start. One of the most frustrating combinations for me (as a practicing relationship astrologer) is having two Pisces who both refuse to make the first move!
Aquarians can be amongst the most frustrating people to date at the start of a relationship. Being independent and often emotionally reserved it’s common for partners to be unsure of their feelings.
The good news is that Aquarius rarely date someone they aren’t interested in. They typically don’t feel the need to always be dating someone in the same way that more emotional signs sometimes do. It’s nearly always safe to say that if your Aquarius goes on more than 3 or 4 dates with you then he is definitely interested.
As a side on this, they typically wont consider a sexual relationship prior to establishing a mental connection with you. If they seem reserved sexually when first dating that typically isn’t a bad thing. It’s very important however to focus on the mental (conversation) connection between you and not press them sexually in that situation, as that will typically turn them off or push them away.
The Capricorn man is as romantic and emotional as anyone else, but can be somewhat inhibited in expressing his emotions, sometimes preferring to perform practical tasks to help loved ones in preference to making purely romantic gestures. If he seems more interested in being your personal handyman than getting you into bed, this is just his way of showing he cares!
He will be exceptionally cautious of making a commitment until he knows that your traits and lifestyle are compatible with his. He is very cautious by nature, and not one to rush into anything, so again don’t be misled if his interest appears mainly platonic for a long time.
This isn’t a very subtle man, so obvious signs such as telling you, wanting to spend a lot of time with you, and getting jealous if you look elsewhere are reliable indicators. While being relatively unemotional or clingy, he isn’t the type to play mind games with you deliberately however Sagittarius men do tend to be very cautious about committing, which can come across as being hot and cold.
This can vary. Some Scorpios don’t have a problem sending 20-50 texts, emails and voicemails a day. You won’t be in any doubt at all! At the other extreme many Scorpios don’t want you to know how smitten they are! If you’re unsure then the best thing to do is simply to ask. If you’re serious about your Scorpio man, don’t play games, just have an honest and open conversation with him. You will save both of you a lot of heartache, and he will respect you more for doing so (even if he didn’t like you previously!)
Almost inconsistently, your Scorpio man may want more personal space than many signs do. This is partly due to his private nature, and partly because every experience must be carefully analyzed afterwards and the precious emotions absorbed and savored.
Often the largest indicator is a desire to share romantic (or passionate!) ideas and topics with you. They are very natural lovers and it may seem random at the time, however they typical reserve intimate conversation for people they are interested in. If it happens regularly then it’s a very good sign they are interested.
Libras are also very big on teamwork and fairness. They want a partner, and not a puppy or a master. Conversation is more important to them than most other signs. If they regularly seek you out for one on one conversations then it’s also a good indicator. Typically they don’t have a problem complimenting you on anything they like about you, and a regular flow of compliments is another good indicator.
As in all things, Virgo will analyze love and seek perfection. This is of course a difficult area to do either, and as a result they can be particularly hesitant and stand-offish until he’s comfortable with a partner. Just to be clear, this doesn’t mean you need to be perfect as they appreciate imperfection too.
If a Virgo starts to appear in your life more, then chances are pretty good. They may occasionally flirt with you, in sometimes subtle or childish ways. They’ll also express a desire for your happiness, and their nurturing side will appear. If a Virgo opens up to you about their feelings, that’s also a great sign.
Leo’s generally aren’t very subtle when in love. They want the world to know about it, and that includes showing and telling you! If you happen to have a more reserved Leo then possessiveness and jealousy is the second most reliable indicator. Flirt a little with other women in front of her and see how she reacts. Just be careful you don’t get mauled if you over do it!
Cancer is a naturally nurturing sign. If they care, then they tend to show it fairly obviously and readily. Hugs, questions about your day, troubles, worries, picking up on your moods etc are a good indicator. On the other side of things, withdrawing if offended or hurt is an equally good indicator. If they care about someone they become very easily offended by that person.
Gemini are often unromantic, so love notes and whispering sweet nothings isn’t normally their style. They’re typically fairly straightforward and will outright tell you they love you. Often the bigger issue is determining how sincere they are. If you’re questioning the sincerity the most obvious physical signs are that if they love someone they want to be around them all the time, they’ll share personal details with you and get a little jealous (less so than most other signs) if you hang out with other people while ignoring them.
Taurus tend to be direct and straightforward at the start of a relationship. If they are interested it’s likely you will know. While generally laid back about life she definitely knows what she wants, and how to get it. She isn’t the type to be overly shy, or to ever play confusing mind games.
One of the most straightforward signs, if an Aries is interested in you then you’ll probably know about it! They rarely have a problem taking action or making their intentions clear.
Ironically, one of the most common complaints about them is that they can be too direct and honest about such things. This isn’t a person who sits around planning or leaving subtle clues! If you have to ask with an Aries then… probably he doesn’t (or doesn’t yet!)