The Zodiac Signs and Romance
Lessons to give in love : Love is faith, love is dreamy and love is compassion.
Lessons to learn in love : The fact that love is all encompassing, it is complete and it can motivate one to live and carry on; that the love is and can be the biggest motivation in life.
Personality : Dreamy, mystical, romantic healers of the zodiac, the Pisces are kind hearted, sympathetic, compassionate and modest. Often quiet, slow and measured in their movements, and altruistic, generous and creative in their actions, the Fish seem to possess a deep understanding of life, or so it seems. Fish may even come across as detached and passive. Some may take them to be troubled, while others may be enchanted by this mystical aura. But, the Fish, on their own, are actually free, inspired and happy. They do not aim or attempt to go against the grain, struggle against the tide. Also, the Pisces is supposed to be enlightened and spirituality awakened. However, the Fish faces this constant struggle inside – lured by the temptations around. Some Pisces may want to abandon it all and leave, while others may completely give in to the epicurean, hedonistic romantic ideal. Truth is that even in its utmost negative expression – laziness, tardiness, timidity, escapism, narcissism – a Pisces knows and wishes to swim upstream – it’s the Pisces obligation.
Love for the Pisces is : a selfless emotion, a miracle that completes, creates a whole, and requires entire submission of the self. Love is more about giving than receiving for them, and is also a lot about creativity, philosophy and spirituality. But, like their mutable quality and thanks to their ruler Neptune, the Fish may exhibit a tendency to move – from one to another – usually in search of ‘real’ love, of spirituality and of greater depth. Few would believe, but the Fish can be staunch, often unmoving from their ideals, not because they fail to see others point of view, but because they know.
When in Love : the Pisces is gentle, nurturing, intuitive, selfless and compassionate, yet frustrating at times. Rarely willing to explain their stance and quite fixed in opinions and thoughts, they are capable of evoking a variety of feelings, broad enough to cover the entire spectrum – ranging from extreme passion to raging anger. The Pisces avoid, rather shun, confrontation, and thus make for a submissive partner. They are happy to give and forgive. However, others may view this as escapism. Most Pisces are soft-spoken, tender and timid, which may make them the ideal doormat. Problems of others awaken their inner philanthropist; sacrifice comes naturally to them. A mature Pisces partner is a dream love material, especially when in hands of an equally loving and gentle mate. In good relationships, the Fish flower, blossom and are capable of attaining their poetic, philosophic and creative best. Wrong experiences, on the other hand, may divert the Fish to irrevocable routes of addictions, alcoholism, day dreaming, promiscuity and wasting.
Lessons to give in love : Ability to bear, to tolerate and keep smiling.
Lessons to learn in love : Appreciating that love is all about ‘feeling one’ with the ‘one’, and that’s why giving oneself wholly is important; also the fact that scepticism has no place in love.
Personality : The humanitarian Aquarius personality respects sharing, innovating and rebelling. Novelty enchants them, and modernity infuses life into them. Liberal to the point of being peculiar, even eccentric at times, yet so wise, they are a mystery to many. Fixed in their own personal priorities, style and opinions, they crave, propagate and encourage change. And, hence comes the duality, which surprises other people. By nature, most Water Bearers are fearless and professional, true investigators, wishing to unearth the hidden secrets, while by ability they are intuitive to the fault. Blessed with a capability to question, unravel, experiment and analyse without emotion, they are very logical and make great scientists, mathematicians and inventors. Most Aquarius find pleasure in flouting norms and tradition, and are rarely scared of conflict.
Love for the Aquarius is : cool, impersonal yet unselfish and enjoyable. Aquarius wishes to investigate the depths and scope of love before fully accepting its existence and form. To the humanitarians of the zodiac, love is universal and selfless. Aquarius firmly believes in being impartial and equal, in all his dealings and myriad friendships. An Aquarius will always have many friends. And, with his attractive personality, visionary approach and tolerance, he rarely faces a dearth of suitors or friends. The Aquarian love for new and modern makes him challenge convention and tradition even in the domain of love. Hence, many an Aquarius may not hesitate in testing the waters on multiple quarters, before submitting to love. However, given their open nature, they may sometimes end up confusing casual friendships with love. Hence, feeling empty, unfulfilled or confused in love is a probability for them.
When in Love : Aquarius is communicative, imaginative witty, candid and friendly. The mate of this intelligent person will find great fun in spending time with him, as an Aquarius is always full of beans – innovative, bubbling with novel ideas to do something different and unconventional yet fun and cosy. Usually loyal (especially when they have found the ‘one’), and supportive of independent partners, they themselves guard their independence fiercely. However, Aquarius natives often have no problems in letting the similar liberties to their partner. They encourage their partners to look for better avenues, change jobs (if need be), take up refresher courses, overlook traditional options and aim for a better tomorrow. However, in the heat to innovate, move, change and evolve, Aquarius may end up neglecting his personal relationships. He may even fail to infuse his relationships with warmth and tenderness, which may affront others. Since many Water Bearers also have their hands full, their social calendars chock-a-block, they tend to be detached, absent-minded and unmindful of their partner’s needs. And, when confronted, they may simply refuse to cooperate. We suggest that you don’t squander your chances of finding your true love.
Lessons to give in love : Sincerity and ability to take on (and carry on) responsibilities and provide for material comforts. Also the fact that the love is, in other words, wisdom and stability.
Lessons to learn in love : Ability to loosen up; to give unconditionally and to be selfless in love.
Personality : The providers of the zodiac, Capricorn believe in getting peace from within. They view dependence as a flaw. The stern, sometimes even grim and cold, exteriors of the hard working Mountain Goats – the Capricorn – are, in fact, belying. Once you get to know them well, the picture is quite different. True, that the Capricorn are averse to risks, and would stick to the tried and tested, but they too have a fun, spontaneous streak. They just take more than usual amount of time to open up. Since security is so important to them, they pursue monetary goals with an unflinching dedication, but riches, fame and adulation, even if they bring them momentary pleasure, are never their real priorities. They do command, but rarely dominate, for aggressive power plays are not their thing. However, when a Goat slips into the negative mode, a rigid, snob takes over, often pessimistic and ambitious. Then, they come with conditions attached!
Love for Capricorn is : a mutually satisfying exchange that brings the needed security, peace and contentment. And, contrary to general perception, love is very important to them. Yes, it is about ties and responsibilities, but it is also about sensuality and loads of stability. Capricorn’s stern exterior and Saturnine ways may hide their gentle, tender side, but they do understand love. Allow them to open up, and you will get a glimpse of their unbridled passion and supreme self-confidence, which sure can be charming beyond words. Saturn infuses a great respect for age, culture, success and achievement in a them, so the Goat get drawn to the rich and the successful. However, the rich in their domain are not the ones born with a silver spoon! The Goats’ family too holds a lot of importance in their life. That is why, when they love, they envisage the person as their family – it’s rarely about one-nights stands or superficial flirtations in this old soul’s domain.
When in love : the Capricorn are dependable and caring. Not the ones to believe in excess of emotion and display, they are controlled, measured, even cautious in their approach to love. Quiet and undemanding, they do try to view the other’s perspective, though they may be alleged as selfish and callous. However, they themselves may not be very candid (maybe not comfortable) when it comes to revealing or discussing their inner desires and longings. Deep down, the Goat possesses a bubbling passion, waiting to explode in the company of an ideal mate. On surface, most Goats, the stern traditionalists, display great reverence for status quo. Let a Goat open up, and you may have a very interesting partner beside you, who does have a sense of humour (even if tinged with sarcasm and irony). Their insistence on perfection, quality and high standards at all times, though, may irritate their partners.
Lessons to give in love : Candid, upfront honesty. Love is to know and to communicate.
Lessons to learn in love : Loyalty and devotion.
Personality : Restless, inquisitive and philosophical Sagittarius find it hard to believe anything/ anyone at the first go, and hence take time to form opinions. Born with a unique spirit of inquiry, they (with their penetrating logic and curiosity) aim to unearth the mysteries of their own and others’ behaviour. Candid as they are, in their attempt to know and see, may end up asking/ saying embarrassing (or rude) things. Archers exhibit a certain duality in their persona. Although, such keen investigators willing to go an extra mile to find, read, communicate and philosophise on eternal truth, philosophical teachings, higher learning and human behaviour, they themselves may resent the complex education system and formal training. They are optimistic yet sceptical, fanatics yet atheists, and tactless yet serious! They adore their freedom, and restrictions of any sort may irritate and frustrate them.
Love for the Sagittarius is : true, eternal yet something that may evade them, and thus need to be found, investigated, restored or retained before it is lost forever. No wonder, Archers are inwardly insecure, even though their insecurities are carefully masked under the garb of their garrulous, self-immersed, blunt exteriors. Often scared of reality (and even shocked beyond repair by it), they seek refuge in idealism (which may go too far sometimes) and their own strong spirit of inquiry. They fail to look inwards, so socially tuned in they are, and thus may fail to achieve true fulfilment. Extremely careful of their own space, Archers may go astray in love as they may often view love as confining (and not liberating). Yet, their partners would do well to learn from their contagious idealism, enthusiasm and optimism.
When in Love : Sagittarius is cheerful, optimistic, communicative and adventurous. Although, Archers’ frank opinions and an innocent tactlessness may affront their partner sometimes, Archers, with their jovial nature, bubbling exuberance, ability to talk on anything, sense of adventure, and love for travel, shall enchant and win them back pretty soon. They are their happiest in a new relationship. However, as the relationship progresses, and becomes routine, the free, restless Archers may start resenting the sense of confinement and responsibility a committed relationship brings. They do have a tendency to remain immersed in their own dream worlds, which may have an adverse bearing on their relationships.
Lessons to give in love : The power of passion, total abandon, raw energy and sensual pleasure.
Lessons to learn in love : Appreciating the aspect that love is giving, that it is surrender. Realisation that fulfilment in love has to be mutual.
Personality : Passionate, sorted, capable, mature, keenly intuitive, yet insecure, restless and secretive, Scorpios are as mysterious as they come. This emotional and magnetic Water sign signifies the mature human being who already knows a plenty, yet is able to perceive that there’s a lot he still hasn’t seen. And thus, he desires to see and find it all. This tendency to see mystery/ problem even where it doesn’t exist makes him suspicious and preoccupied. Always sceptical about others and their motivations, Scorpio is fiercely protective of his own self, and of his loved ones. Any hurt, and Scorpio reflexively stings back – revenge, instant and complete is the name of the game in his raw, intense world. Defeats motivate him, and hurts harden his resolve to bounce back – resilience is a noteworthy quality in Scorpio. The Scorpio understands and fulfils his duties, but is constantly tugged at by a deep-set fear, an insecurity that something is going on behind his back. A
Love for the Scorpio is : is an all consuming desire for oneness that engulfs the Scorpios almost all their lives, and greatly affects their opinions and choices. And, to them love is supreme, worthy of any sacrifice, even though it is expressed and better understood in a more physical, carnal way. Sex is a way of finding the unknown, a way of transcending physical barriers and touching the chords of the self-consciousness that enchants the Scorpio no end. No wonder, sex assumes great importance in a Scorpio’s world. Many misunderstand Scorpio because of this aspect, however, sex is a way of blending human with the spiritual for this zodiac sign.
When in Love : Scorpio is potent, protective, gentle, loving, committed and loyal. In the beginning, though, they may play it cool. They take their own sweet time to analyse each little nuance of the person, before deciding on the one. Passionate to the core, these magnetic and powerful beings are sure to draw attention and appreciation from myriad quarters. Many fall prey to their mystical charms, but this hardly affects them. Measured and cautious in love, they possess an amazing grace and self-will. Once they enter a relationship or fall headlong in love, they are deeply and intensely involved. They make amorous lovers and sex holds a place of pride in their love domains. Despite all the external toughness and internal resolve, Scorpios are insecure, scared beings, constantly afraid of losing their beloved to the conspiring world.
Lessons to give in love : Ability to appreciate and internalise the concepts of balance, aesthetics and beauty.
Lessons to learn in love : Beauty may be love, but the beauty lies in the eyes of beholder! Harmony of hearts and compatibility score over appearances; depth is important too.
Personality : Akin to its symbol and its middle position in the zodiac, Libra is all about balance. The Libra knows that both good and bad, black and white, poor and rich are important to the wholesomeness of the experiences the world has to offer. And that, the key lies in moderation, in finding and internalising the fine art of balance. Existence comes to assume a wider perspective in the Libra world, and it includes all – the family, the society and the world. Logical and intelligent, Libra is capable of judging objectively, after carefully analysing both the sides of a coin. The Libra knows, and employs to his advantage the elegant art of gentle persuasion. The Cardinal leader leads the way and rules others without being brashly forceful. Charming to the tee, they are sensitive, but also realistic, and rarely allow emotions to rule their lives.
Love for the Libra is : harmony. Mating of minds that is balanced – not extreme in any way, and leads to happy, pleasurable results for the both sides. In Libra’s poised, symmetrical and harmonious world, love is a lot about beauty. Venus, the ruler of Libra infuses in him a deep-seated reverence for aesthetics, symmetry and harmony. This may become a problem for Libra, as he may fail to appreciate the deeper meaning of love. He may also take a lot of time in deciding on his perfect mate, as he is wants his mate to be completely balanced in everything. Charming and elegant, Libra people themselves rarely face any problem in finding admirers and lovers, but they, at times, take too much of time in deciding, and by that time, the one may leave – tired and disappointed. Libra people know that they have fallen in love, and like it to be with all the frills attached -wine, roses, candles, pink hearts et al.
When in Love : Libra makes for a very attractive, charming, tender, loving, committed and interesting partner. Objective and fair, they take their time to say yes, but once they have made up their minds, they seldom stage a walk-out. Although, they may come across as manipulative, employing their charms to the maximum, they often are hugely supportive and mindful of their mate’s decisions and happiness. They may go awry at times, owing to their quest for all things beautiful and rich in life, but they soon return to the mother earth, once their partner whistles a warning. Courteous, amiable and socially cued in as they are, they always believe in keeping up appearances, which may baffle their partners, at times
Lessons to give in love : Purity and meticulousness. That love is sacred, virginal and pure, and ought to be treated with respect
Lessons to learn in love : Passion and warmth. Ability to appreciate the fact that love is much more than plastic purity or pure analysis.
Personality : Virgos are conscientious, dutiful perfectionists – meticulous, prim and proper with a competitive, survival instinct so strong and marked that it dominates their life and choices. Capable of dissecting, de-constructing and analysing almost everything, Virgos believe in submitting to the norm for the benefit of duty and practicality. They do begrudge the restrictions, yet are courteous and refined enough to smile and carry on. They understand that it’s important to serve, to work and to take on responsibilities with a serious approach in order to sustain, compete and survive. Even though excellence matters to them, idealism doesn’t! Their drive for excellence and learning ought to translate to real rewards, and ideals and dreams rarely hold any significance to them. Probably that makes them critical of everything and everyone; they may openly resent the more frivolous, careless, even jovial (and, thus lesser) beings. It’s then that the worrier in Virgo takes over!
Love for the Virgo is : a mystery to which they are happy and content to surrender. Virgo is on the edge of awareness, yet is not willing to know further, for it believes in what it sees (and what is not visible may not exist after all). They do like to indulge in simple pleasures of life, and love is one of them. They are completely devoted to their relationships, but their love too has a practical side to it; their loved one may often see them drifting towards a more utilitarian cause. Besides, their constantly working minds may not allow them to let their hair down. Often their greatest love is their work, home and place where they can create a perfect atmosphere. Perfection inspires them, and their partners would do well to imbibe the Virgin determination and clarity of thought. On the other hand, a good partner should try to loosen the tightly coiled strings of seriousness and watchfulness from the Virgin mind. I
When in Love : Virgo is devoted, gentle, dutiful and loyal. Most Virgos love to take care of their loved ones, creating the perfect havens for them. They hate being dependent on their partners, and may opt to work at all stages of life and relationship. Being one of the most health conscious zodiac sign, Virgo infuses its natives with a dogged determination to remain fit, active and healthy. Most Virgos want similar partners, or they may drive their mates mad over the same thing. Realists to the core, controlled by mind and guided by practicality, they don’t like wasting time in ideal pursuits. However, most Virgos possess pure, innocent hearts, and are guileless in love. However, their vigilant, fretting self doesn’t miss anything; they may become overly critical of their partner’s flaws. Jealousy and competitiveness too may mar their relationships.
Lessons to give in love : Great faith in the power of self and of love. Ability to love oneself, and to remain ecstatic when in love.
Lessons to learn in love : Modesty and humility. And, that love is as much about giving as it is about taking.
Personality : The king Leo is regal, proud and confident – of the self, of the ability and of the knowledge he has and he believes he will attain. Courageous, large-hearted and compassionate, Lion is full of youthful enthusiasm and vigour, and is the proverbial performer – his ruling Sun makes him hugely popular and socially cued in. The symbol of idealistic young blood, the bright, warming sunshine and the spring bloom, the teenage youth in the Leo loves gazing at himself, admiring his handsome features, dogged drive, keen perception, surprising candour and admirable wit. The smug Lion prances around, singing paeans of his own accomplishments, so much so that he borders on to arrogance. He prefers having the final word in whatever he is involved. And, given his benevolent Leonine spirit, he takes it on himself to advise others (even lecture) and care for the vulnerable.
Love for the Leo is : romance – bright, frothy and beautiful – akin to movies/ fairy tales. A Lion loves the idea of ‘being in love’, and it’s the very feeling of being in love, of loving and loved that infuses in them so much positivity and vitality. It’s also about not loving someone else, but oneself, and the whole world, at large. In the sense that the Lion manages to draw enjoyment and fulfilment out of loving without ties, without conditions and without expectations. But then, that is ideal, and Leo does demand returns. Lion’s urge for power and dominance finds its way in the domain of love too. Leos like submission, and crave assurance. Never the ones to shirk away from giving generously, they do demand that gratitude be expressed with candour and affections be returned with reverence.
When in Love : Leos are supremely ardent, affectionate, loving and amorous. They love pampering their loved ones with open displays of affection, royal treatment, magnanimous gestures – you name it. But, also expect ample doses of praises and thank-yous in return. Although, they possess all the qualities of a great life partner, are extremely supportive, strong and benevolent, they can be very taxing as lovers. They prefer being in the driving seat in a relationship, and their pride, though overt and bountiful, is still very fragile. Leos make doting, proud partners, but in return from their partners they crave unfailing loyalty, strength of character, love bordering on to reverence, silent submission to their (often) raging temper and dominance.
Lessons to give in love : Tenderness, devotion and sensitivity. Quality of caring and nurturing.
Lessons to learn in love : Ability to let loose and let go and ability to express openly.
Personality : The Crab craves change, yet is scared of it. The stage of life that Cancer represents is perhaps the trickiest stage of human life – neither this nor that. No wonder, Cancer natives deal with a plenty of emotions, many of which are new to them, yet very real, very deep. With an eerie perception, they observe others, and thence develops their legendary instinct, their intuition. The troubled Cancer wavers and becomes confused, sometimes too clingy, at other times absolutely carefree. The vacillating moods of the Cancer natives wax and wane with their ruler Moon, making them prone to frequent swings and spells of melancholy and longing for the past. In a negative manifestation, Cancer natives may become too hung up, refusing to accept their flaws, while being cowardly, stingy, irritable and locked up. Thus, with a Cancer lover, it pays to stay informed in advance.
Love for the Cancer is : the emotional security net, a need that is above all, and that, ideally, should come from a familiar corner of their lives. Love is ‘home’ to a Cancer! A great need for love evokes deep sentimentality in the Cancer. Experiences of the world, the feelings of loss (as the adolescent realises that growing up process means losing some childhood treasures and beloved people/ surroundings) make him an emotionally munificent, sensual, albeit a hardened and withdrawn, being, whose world rests on the foundation of emotion and sentiment. Never make a mistake when it comes to pleasing a Cancer lover.
When in Love : Cancer loves with all his senses, all his might – completely and irrevocably. Cancer makes for a gentle, sensitive, caring and loving mate, who is sensible and cautious, and loves to create a secure home and hearth. But then, he also needs an equal amount, if not more, back from his partner. Prone to umpteen mood swings at all stages of his life, the Crab may go from chatty to reclusive in one moment, while a care-giver may transform shades miraculously to become a stingy, reckless shadow of himself in another. The partner of a Cancer should, ideally, be ready to go an extra mile to help the secretive Cancer open up. Crabs can’t handle hurts – their silent anger is legendary.
Lessons to give in love : Awareness and intellectual stimulation. Versatility, readiness for experimentation and open-mindedness.
Lessons to learn in love : Appreciation for the intangible, warm and tender side of love.
Personality : The toddler in Gemini understands, appreciates and values his autonomy and new-found independence. Communication is new and very enchanting and intoxicating, as it allows them to catch others’ attention. Most Geminis love to talk, and manage to leave others smitten in the process. Gemini wishes to break the barriers of familiarity. A strong urge to run at the first instance to explore the world follows. And, hence comes the duality. The toddler runs away, then stops and looks back at the security of his home, and is left torn between the world that beckons him, and the nest that is familiar and safe. Alert, perceptive and versatile Gemini longs to traverse the mystical path, and keeps analyzing and dissecting the actions of the world.
Love for Gemini is : conformity that does bring happiness and pleasure, yet can be a hindrance to complete freedom. In positive sense, love becomes an enjoyable bond for the Gemini. When negatively viewed, it may cause resentment, as the Gemini may come to view love as restrictive. The negative traits of Gemini – shallow behaviour, glib talking, deception, duality, unreliability – may become pronounced, if a Gemini continues to see love and relationships as binding, mere obligations that are barriers to his freedom and independence.
When in Love : Gemini are versatile, entertaining, inquisitive and stimulating. Their candid, amicable personalities make them great companions. Spending hours simply chatting and interacting with their loved one is always on their agenda. Gemini, however, are prone to bouts of restlessness and recklessness. Impractical, impatient and inconsistent when under such spells, they may attempt to run away from love. As aforementioned, also prone to feelings of duality about love and relationships, they may love the pleasure, amusement and warmth the love brings him, and the next moment may resent it with full force.
Lessons to give in love : Solidarity in love; ability to create material security net.
Lessons to learn in love : Flexibility; ability to forgive hurts and slights. Being a good listener.
Personality : The healthy, cherubic baby in Taurus is loved and admired by many, and yet many are afraid of his stubborn tantrums and sudden, unannounced grumpiness. The Taurean strength of purpose is well known. Often accused of being clingy, miserly and possessive, Taurus natives value stability and solidarity, and despise change. Sensual pleasures and experiences are vital to them. The enthusiastic baby hidden in them is delighted to employ his senses of touch, smell and taste to get pleasure. No wonder, most Taurus natives possess a keen eye for aesthetics, and an ardent love food, gourmet food at that. Happy go lucky and carefree, they, however, are famed for their fuming anger. When that happens, it’s best to stay away from their line of fire!
Love for Taurus is : affection in its primal, physical, visible sensual sense. Love to Taurus ought to be pleasurable and available, when they need it. And, they like (and know) to both give and receive love. The deeper, more subliminal aspect of love may not be understood here, though. The understanding of love at the Taurean stage is very simple. Very steadfast and loyal, Taurus natives value material comforts and security, and get drawn to people who have and can provide for them. The Bull also desires to own fully and completely the one he loves – anger, stubbornness, dependence, jealousy and possessiveness are traits which ‘undo’ it for Taurus many a times.
When in Love : Bulls are devoted, and believe in showering their beloved with ample physical and material gestures of affection. Their understanding and display of love, though, may lack depth or tenderness, sometimes leaving their partner feeling empty. The faithful, headstrong Bull doesn’t mean it to be like that, but that’s the only way he knows love. Bull wants his loved ones to acknowledge and establish (with open affection or gifts) their love on a regular basis. Extremely persistent and unquestioning in love, they also desire equal, if not more, loyalty and commitment from their partner. Traditional and least change-oriented, Bulls are rather fixed, and their relationships tend to mirror their personality. The baby in them makes them dependent and clingy. Naturally, rejection and betrayal are abhorred.
Lessons to give in love : Innocence, action-orientation and optimism.
Lessons to learn in love : Investing trust in the right place and right person, at the right time. Thinking before leaping!
Personality : Vitality is the second name of this proverbial infant of the Zodiac. Aries knows how to celebrate life with his candour, infectious exuberance, optimism and love for adventure. Probably that is why despite being the self-centred, self-absorbed, impulsive babe, Aries is lovable, and manages to win admirers with a surprising ease. Both magnetic and awe-inspiring in his overwhelming innocence and trust in the inherent goodness of the world, the neonate in Ram doesn’t know the world till he experiences it first hand. And, that is why many of his interactions with the real-world jolt him. Misplaced trust may make him suspicious, harsh and extremely egocentric.
Love for the Aries is : a given, a necessity that has to be fulfilled, come what may! The neonate feels it is his birth-right, and doesn’t hesitate in demanding love. An Aries will not hesitate in going to the least probable places looking for love, especially if it catches his fancy. An Aries wilts in absence of love; love is like a magic potion, a supplement to him. On his first (or an unexpected) encounter with avoidance or abandonment, the baby is left stunned and scared, and probably scarred for life. Paradoxically, the Ram often takes rejection in love as a challenge, and doesn’t shy away from pursuing his object of affection till he succeeds in his mission.
When in Love : Aries is very loving and mindful of his partner’s needs and demands. He is the happiest to pamper his beloved with extravagant gestures, as it gives him a sense of accomplishment. In turn, he himself demands and craves attention, devotion and passion. However, the very need to reciprocate in these very terms may make him feel lost, as he may genuinely fail to realise that he ought to ‘give back’ in equal measure. The babe in Aries secretly requires a lot of babying, and yearns that all his desires be fulfilled at the first instance. Aries needs constant reassurances in love (though, he usually is too egoistic and smug to accept it!), and in their absence, he may get very angry or scared. Although an Aries may come across as domineering at first, yet the last thing he desires is a submissive partner. A happy and satiated in love Aries can be extremely generous, cheerful and adventurous. A neglected in love Aries shall shout, cry and throw tantrums. While, an unhappy in love Aries may develop a tendency to get bored with people too soon; become a philanderer, or at the very least, disloyal to the current partner.
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