How to Woo the Zodiac Signs
Pisces men are born romantics. Pisces need love and an outlet for their creativity and dreams. Their world is of fantasies where they spend their lives trying to turn their dreams into reality. An ideal person for them is the one who is spiritual and brave. He wants his partner to be just as compassionate as he is yet stronger. He wants his partner to support him and help him achieve his dreams. A Pisces man yearns for a soul mate he can share it all with. Once he finds that person the Pisces male will give all their love and faithfulness.
To attract the shy Pisces man, you will need to be outgoing. You will more than likely have to be the one to make the first move. If you’re a romantic at heart you’ll have a lot of fun seducing your Pisces. Because he is an idealist, romantic and unpredictable, dates with him will be fun and worthwhile. Take note, he is rather sensitive and when it comes to his heart, he is thin skinned therefore he should be pursued with love and attention. Once you can make them feel comfortable with you it will be smooth sailing from then on.
On your date the more creativity the better it will be. A romantic bistro and art gallery maybe perfect. Whatever his creative outlet is… start there. Where ever you may go, make him laugh. They are often times laid back and passive but will be impressed if someone can make them laugh. Though they can get easily lost in a good conversation subsequently they are also reading every word your body language is saying. Make sure say what you mean and mean what you say because they will be able to read you better than your momma.
Now remember, Pisces are not aggressive by nature. You may have been the one who began the seduction and you will more than likely be the one who brings it to the next level. Take advantage of their romantic streak. As things progress, suggested dinner and movie at your place. Your couch is primed for cuddling isn’t it? Take a good romantic comedy and blanket then cuddle with him on the couch after an intimate dinner. Safe to say, cuddling may not be all you do on that couch once the movie is over.
A creative way to capture her heart is through good old fashioned love letters. Now there is no need for pages and pages of you pouring your heart out but a few good lines of genuine emotion will work. This is an easy way to “court” her. Maybe a quote might work or even short poems but begin with something positive and uplifting and move forward from there. As you move forward, give her honest tidbits of yourself, little thoughts or dreams of your own. The idea of a clandestine love affair will excite and charm her while the secrecy intrigues her. You can either be a bit mysterious at first not letting her know it’s you or you could be a bit bold and reveal yourself. Either way, keep it as only something you two know.
As you work up to asking her out, remember that politeness goes a long away. If you see her, hold open the door for her and find a way to compliment her as you do so. Find out how she likes her coffee and bring her a cup. If her birthday is coming up, bring her some flowers. Since Pisces love the color purple, I suggest Sterling Roses. By sweeping her off her feet and giving her a reason to fantasize, you have already positioned yourself in her mind. The unassuming romantic gestures, coupled with a polite and courteous manner will get you that date and put you well on your way.
When thinking of where to take her on your date remember your Pisces woman is very visual and very romantic. Be creative. Does your art museum have a café? Does your local symphony practice outdoors (weather permitting of course) near some street food vendors? Maybe walking through the park or near a lake might be better. As a water sign she is drawn to her element in the form of lakes, streams, beaches, etc. Where ever you choose try to accomplish something visually stimulating as well as quixotic. You want to be able to create an atmosphere where she can feel only you two exist and provide a sense of comfort to lead to good conversation.
Pisces want someone they can love that is educated and can hold a great conversation. They are talkers and dreamers. The Pisces woman wants someone who can speak unabashedly and dream vividly. Within your conversations feel free to be honest and candid. She will want to know all about you from your first heartbreak to your favorite fabric softener. Take the opportunity to show her your strengths and even share a few dreams. Make her think of you as a rock, a person who can ground her and support her. If you can stimulate her mind and get her heart to trust you, then you can definitely stimulate other places.
Understand he is an air sign. The element and those within it are very independent and free spirited. They adore their freedom and crave the endless search for more. More is whatever they like, whatever hobbies they have even the quest of learning something new. Just because your Aquarius man is free as air does not mean he will be very hard to get. He is an extrovert and loves socializing. He could have conversations with everyone but he could very well notice you. While yes, they can be a bit difficult to attract and seduce, a little bit of time invested and he will be yours. You will need to be witty and crafty with a slight air of mystery to win his heart.
To seduce your Aquarian, you’ve got to be relaxed and detached about it. If you come on too strong, it will be game over. He will have figured you out immediately and getting to his bed will never be an option. This sign equates thinking with every facet of his life, including relationships and thinking is what this sign does best. Like fellow air signs Gemini and Libra, become his friend. Be the friend that stands out. Be the one that truly listens to his creative thoughts and the one that has faith in his next idea.
Hang out with him. Intrigue Aquarius males with new and shiny things. Go to places you’ve never been or try new things with him. If there is something he hasn’t done yet and you might know something about it, use it your advantage and take him. Whatever you do, be yourself. Remember, thinking to him is like the air we breathe. He will see right through you if you are doing anything for his benefit. Phony and clingy will write you off permanently if he senses them.
When you experience these new things with him, do not be afraid to share your opinions. He will love every word. Aquarians love to talk and they will discuss anything. Seriously, they will talk about anything at all. Nothing is too taboo or painful. They will appreciate you more if you can do the same. Whether it is good or bad, they can agree to disagree about most anything. As a close friend, someone of importance in his life, he will want to know your thoughts and getting to know you as much as possible. The more of your intellect you show and the better conversations you two have, the more he will find you attractive.
She isn’t concerned with winning approval or receiving compliments. She is rather “devil may care” and doesn’t give a damn about what people think of her much less give a damn if what she does pisses someone off. She has a true ‘live and let live’ attitude. Her open mindedness paves the way for her humanitarian streak. The ‘live and let live’ mentality she has doesn’t just apply to her own actions but to everyone else. She believes we have the right to live as we choose as long as we do not hurt one and other. Her humanitarian outlook causes her to sometimes wear her heart on her sleeve and enhancing her already passionate streak.
When you approach them, take the unconventional approach. Put some thought in to it and please avoid the cheesy pick up lines. Use your humor and appeal to their quirky side. Making them laugh, smirk or shake their heads is often a way in to their hearts. If you get that first date, chances are they are interested in you. Prove yourself worthy by being an imaginative date. Now don’t worry about something that might be completely radical or really out of place, whether it is location or activity for your date. Her rebellious streak would be appreciative of something she has never seen, never heard of and even something that might be a bit naughty.
Aquarius women love to do things that stimulate all their senses. She wants to feel with every fiber of her being, see every color in the spectrum, taste all the flavors and smell all the scents. They love doing or trying anything new or out of the ordinary. For your date, invite her to the latest exhibition of contemporary art or a concert by a local band or maybe even the newest Japanese restaurant. It doesn’t matter if you have no clue what the art is trying to tell you or ever had Japanese cuisine, you are showing her you are open to excitement and the experience of learning. Experience something new together and she’ll be fascinated by you, ergo wanting to spend more time with you.
Capricorn males are patient. They measure success in logical increments that showcase their accomplishments. He is not afraid to work and is not afraid to take his time and make sure it is right. He is a practical man who is down to earth, a no fuss, no muss kind of guy. He is all business and rather direct. He wants what he wants and there is nothing to deter him from getting it, even you. If your ambitions do not match his, he will leave you behind.
All that seriousness can make seducing him difficult. You do indeed have your work cut out for you. You need to approach him like he approaches life, confident, calculating and determined. Capricorns are very private men; they separate and sometimes compartmentalize their lives. Business is business and home is home. No need for grand gestures and public displays of affection with them. Discrete and casual is the name of their game. Discretion helps a Capricorn feel comfortable and protected. They care deeply about their public image and desperately want to protect their feelings. Trust is a big issue with Capricorns; if they share their feelings with you then you are on your way.
Present your emotionally and psychologically stable side. You will not get your foot in the door unless you show them you are on even ground with them. When you flirt, make sure it is something only the two of you hear. Gaining your Capricorn’s interest behind closed doors is a way to insure he remains comfortable and open to your persuasions. When it is time to ask him out, pull him aside and with firm confidence ask. Don’t be surprised if he seems taken aback, they are work-aholics and often times singularly focused. He probably didn’t see you coming.
To be completely honest, you might lose faith before you get anywhere with her. You may go through a period of time where you feel you have exhausted all your resources. Her sign is notorious for having walls as high as the Sears Tower and fortified like Ft. Knox. It is likely you may not even get in the front door as her friend the first time around. This woman has all the patience in the world and isn’t afraid to use it. She doesn’t need a partner but eventually she will want one. The secret to making her want is to simply be the warmth that melts her ice.
For the strong women of the zodiac, often times they secretly appreciate when their partner is the one that takes a certain amount of control. The Capricorn woman is one of them. There is no rushing seduction and there is no margin for error. Slow and steady wins you this race for her heart. The best relationships with a Capricorn are those that stem from a natural progression. Befriend her and keep personal tidbits to a minimum. Early conversations should be light hearted and general. You let her in as she lets you in and before you know it there are quiet dinners for two in the privacy of her own home.
Privacy is another important notion to a Capricorn. Over exuberant public displays of affection, everyone and their mother knowing all of your business and gossips have no place in her life. She values intimacy and likes to keep her personal life tucked neatly behind closed doors. No one but you two need to know what is going on. Over time, as your comfort levels grow, you can initiate a subtle public display of affection. Just let her take it as far as she is comfortable with.
So you have taken the time and asserted yourself in her life. While being a constant you have gone along with her program and actively given as much as you received. By now she should be comfortable with you and feel a level of security that she can let you underneath her armor. Start paying attention when she does little things for you almost like a personal assistant. This is her way of showing interest and wanting to move forward.
Capricorns are always calculating and planning. Once she starts doing little things for you she is probably beginning to think of ways to seduce you. By now you have seen her some of her warmth and you want more. Meet her halfway with a little bit of confidence. Coy yet sincere flirting, in private, will get you where you want to go. Be creative. Being able to smile at something only the two of you would know racks up plenty of brownie points in your favor.
How do you become teacher’s pet? As the “Indiana Jones” of the Zodiac, the Sagittarian is a man who loves travel and adventure. Couple that with this thirst for knowledge and you have a man who is as well rounded as he is gorgeous. You have to be someone who has that same thirst for adventure and knowledge. For all your intelligence and beauty you must be as sweet and thoughtful. Show him that you care and that he matters to you. Be someone who can appreciate his independence and understand that he will come back to you when he takes off on his own to explore parts unknown. He is determined to live life to the fullest and question everything he sees. Be the one he wants to share all his discoveries with.
The Sagittarius man will instantaneously respond to the advances of someone who radiates a vibrant energy and confident sex appeal. Walk up to him, slip him your number and simply walk away. If he is single, you will likely get a call. If anything, that little stunt intrigued him and had him wanting to find out more about you. Set up your date; go to some place new to the town or a place neither of you have tried. Consider a date that appeals to his intellectual side like going to a book reading or even to see an independent film. You want to get his creative juices flowing because those get the other juices flowing when fully stimulated. For your date, make yourself gorgeous. Wow him with your good looks then hook him with your witty sense of humor and your lust for life. Let him learn all about you. The more intriguing he finds you the more he will want to follow you, impress and surprise you.
Do not be surprised if you close down the restaurant or bar you were at. It is very easy to get caught up in conversation with a Sagittarian male. When you do talk listen to him carefully, there may be a quiz later. Though seriously, ask questions, ask his opinion; the more you engage the mind above his shoulders, the more you can engage the one below the belt. He is passionate about many things; those passions you share give you the opportunity to agree while you gently touch his thigh. Let him associate your shared interests with sexual opportunity. Share your sense of adventure with him; suggest going to interesting places together or something you always wanted to try. It may have taken a little bit to get the date going but once you two start flirting and relaxing, everything else will have surely picked up.
Like all fire signs, she wants to soak up all she can. The more she learns and experiences, the happier she is. Her idealism and philosophical nature allows her to take a random thought and create reality. When a Sagittarian woman dreams, she dreams big. Her curiosity often gets the best of her causing a constant thirst for new excitement. She has an appetite for travel and adventure. To gain the upper hand in your seduction, take her where she has yet to go.
Your Archer is indeed a straight shooter. She is direct, brutally honest and doesn’t think twice about speaking her mind. She may even beat you to the punch and ask you out on a date. Now she is somewhat of a social butterfly, if she hasn’t noticed you yet then make her. Be the one who is (tastefully) the center of attention. Once you know she has noticed you then use the same tip I gave for seducing a Sagittarius male: if she is busy with friends or having a conversation then wait until you can either interrupt or get her alone. Slip her a sheet of paper with your name and number then smile and walk away.
Both Sagittarius genders love the thrill of the chase but love it even more when they catch their prey. Though the cat and mouse game is often fun and can create great sexual tension, too much turns the Sagittarius off and they will move on. They love the game but two or three rounds of the hot and cold is plenty. There is more fun in the actual interaction with her than the teasing will ever be. There is so much to look forward to!
Show up to your date dressed to the nines and be prepared to bring your “A game”. The fire in your Archer loves a partner that can keep her smiling so keep her amused. You would be surprised how easily a fire sign will gravitate toward the one that will make her laugh versus the model everyone else seems to fawn over. As you keep her amused, keep her talking. The more of your intelligence and wit she sees the more she will want to keep you around. Sprinkle in a few bits about where you may want to travel to or places you have yet to try and she will start to think of ways to go there with you.
Why fight it? You are only fooling yourself. You want to know what is behind the intensity of his stare. You want to know what he is thinking. You want to know what it feels like under him as he rocks your body. And all he did was look you in your eyes without even speaking a word to you yet. Give in, give into him and let him take you along for his ride. Before you make a move, ask yourself how strong you really are. Can you act, feel and think with EVERY fiber of your being? If you can, then do yourself the favor and go get your Scorpio.
Do not be afraid to approach him. Instead of asking for his number, give him yours. Tell him how attractive you find him and if he wants a good time to call. Making the first move could very well turn him on and hook him right then and there. He likes confidence and bold sexuality in a partner. This lets him know that whatever may come, you are up for the task. When he does call, let him plan the date. Scorpio men are fascinating creatures so there is never a dull moment. Where they choose to take you out will be some sort of personal reflection of who they are.
Wherever you go on your date with him, give him your undivided attention. A Scorpio is a sucker for details and while you may not realize he is doing it, he is observing and documenting every single nuance of the evening. On your date, dress the part. You are on a date with a powerfully sensual man; keep that in mind when you dress. Accentuate your best features, low cut top if you have an ample bosom or snug fit pants if your ass is… well your best asset. If he can’t keep his eyes off your lips while you are speaking or his hand off your rear when you are walking, you have achieved your goal for that night.
Scorpios do not fall in love at first sight but when they do he won’t be able to get enough. He will want nothing but you both emotionally and physically, day and night. Consequently, the Scorpio man is one of the most impressive love-makers in the zodiac. Sexually, his passion in bed is unmatched and could be describe as soulful. The man could last for hours with proper stimulation and will use each minute to fulfill any fantasy you may have and more. When you have a sexual relationship with a Scorpio, there is no need for a gym membership. You will feel that delicious work out burn when you wake up every morning after a night with him.
Your Scorpio is an enthralling woman with a very strong A-type personality. She is just the right level of challenge and gives you just the right amount of rewards. Scorpio’s are both highly emotional and highly intuitive. This gives her the uncanny ability to sniff out bullshit the second it is thought. Save yourself the time, save yourself the embarrassment and keep it real when you approach your Scorpion queen.
Though she would be very happy in a committed relationship, she won’t give her heart very easily. She may have trust issues; it is likely she has been hurt a time or two. Therefore any potential mate will have to go through a series of trials in order to get to the relationship stage. Just like the Libra before her, conversation and genuine class will get you everywhere. Open a dialogue with her, keep her comfortable and relaxed, you have your foot in the door.
Scorpios have a vast array of interests. Some they openly share and others you will have to be around a while before you find out about them. Nothing is too taboo or off limits for them. They are very open to new experiences and would love to pick up a new passion. They love passion; in fact they are attracted to it. The more passionate you are about something, the more she will admire you. Incorporate your passions in your conversations with her. Let her talk but do not force subjects, she will reveal all in due time.
Hopefully you paid complete attention during your initial conversation with her. Planning your date accordingly should be easy then if you had. Does not matter where you take her, just be there with her. She is watching you when you least expect it. Be genuine in your attention and show you want her there with you. Besides giving her your undivided attention, take advantage of her sexual nature and touch her during your conversations. Hold her hand, thumb circles on her wrists or maybe even brush her arm but randomly touching her is surely on the path to seducing her.
It has been said, you don’t seduce a Libra man – they seduce you. It is a natural seduction because he is charming and good-humored with everyone. In conversation he can meet people on their own level; a Libra has the ability to see things through your eyes. With that said a Libra man is an excellent conversationalist. He knows a bit about everything and wants to learn more. Libras are very intelligent; they often hide this with their laid back charm so they seem less intimidating. Many people never look past the charm and see just how intelligent a Libra actually is. Those that do look past and discover their wide range of interests and hobbies find themselves captivated even more.
Libra is ruled by the planet Venus which controls beauty, harmony and attraction. The Libra man can appreciate beauty in everything and more importantly the beauty of a potential mate. He also seeks perfection in balance. This means he always seems to be on the search for the perfect mate. Unfortunately, that does not exist… or does it in you? Do you have an adventurous side? Are you both sexy and intelligent? Well if you wouldn’t mind the occasional walk on the wild side as you turn heads in that gorgeous black dress then step up to plate and dazzle him with your knowledge of literature and music.
If you want to seduce a Libra man, you have to have good taste and well… being a total knockout wouldn’t hurt either. He likes all his senses stimulated but leave a little to be desired. Do not give a Libra man insight into everything about you early on. Dress well but reveal just enough skin and don’t tell every funny childhood story you have. Make him want to know and see more. You will need to become his friend first before moving towards a romantic relationship with him. Since he already has plenty of friends, you will need to stand out from the rest. The first step is to engage him in conversation about topics he loves, including himself. Being a good listener and conversationalist as well as indulging him in his crazy escapades will make him want you.
Ruled by Venus, the Libra woman loves everything about romance and seduction. She is the kind of woman who thrives within a partnership so she is ideal in relationships and marriage. She is always loyal to her mate and those in her inner circle. Understand now that she is NOT a notch on your belt. You want to settle down, lay some roots and GROW UP? This is woman you do it with. Otherwise, her cousin in crime the Aries, might be bored enough to throw you a bone.
With most women, being cute and funny could make you stand out. A Libra woman will laugh right along with you and move on thinking you are like everyone else. Coming to her direct, with some decorum and making her feel comfortable will help you stand out. “Hi, I’m insert name here ” – some intelligent conversation, a few well placed compliments and end the initial introduction with – “I would like to see you again.” If you get a yes then you have done your job well. Just don’t screw it up.
To seduce her, tilt the scales to her advantage. A Libra woman is a devotee to beauty and art so appeal to her natural senses. For your date, bring her to a museum and have lunch at an outdoor café. Weather permitting, take a walk through the local gardens and have a picnic. She likes things intimately casual and comfortable, like it is absolutely natural for you two to be where you are doing what you are doing. The relaxed romance of it all will do more for you than money can buy. So open her doors and pull out her chair but relax and be genuine. With a Libra woman there is no need to be intimidated, no need to be nervous just opens yourself up to her and the rest will just come together.
Virgo men are meticulous and analytical. Never expect him to fall in love with you at the first sight or chase you. They can be quiet and sometimes painfully shy until they’re comfortable in their surroundings. Therefore do not mistake this for being uninterested or cold. In the beginning you may need to initiate conversation but that’s okay because they won’t mind listening. With that said, it’s often better to talk about yourself while initially getting to know your Virgo man of choice. Along with being a bit shy they tend to be very modest. The Virgo male might feel uncomfortable if you ask too many subjective or personal questions right away. You might want to keep conversations on an intellectual level at first rather than an emotional one. Once they get comfortable with you, they will share their opinions and feelings on things, even crack a few jokes along the way.
Once they get comfortable with you, begin to seduce. A Virgo male does not need to be wined and dined. He likes easy and comfortable. If you liked him in those well fitted jeans, take him somewhere he can wear them. Though he may be comfortable, awaking the emotions of a Virgo male can be difficult. They do not mind being single and are never consciously looking for a mate. Do not despair, he does have a heart capable of emotions, it may take some time for him to trust himself to let his emotions out. Once he lets them loose, it will be worth the wait.
He is usually very cautious while forming a relationship. A Virgo man will not fall for the “dumb blonde” or the cutesy “look at me” at me act. You may have been voted the “hottest” in the latest polls, but if you do not have a respectable level of intelligence he won’t even look at you. Lack of decorum and marked rudeness turns him off. So make sure you can hold your liquor and put that super short black mini dress towards the back of your closet. His kind of female has to be fresh, clean and crisp. You want to be a well mannered person with class and finesse. No one else but him needs to know just how sexy you really are. If you want to win and keep the love of a Virgo male, make sure that you have a life that is drama free. He is prone to finding faults in others, but do not give him a reason to find one in you.
You will need to become friends with a Virgo woman before hoping to seduce her. Knowing the quirks of her sign will get you far. Her sign is an intellectual sign which makes her a highly practical person. She is calm, collected and will never display any unreasonable or emotional outbursts in public. Though she is viewed as having little to no emotions, you will be surprised that she has a quick wit and can find humor in most things. Not only does she have a quick wit but empathy toward others you wouldn’t have expected.
Virgos tend to worry too much. So to seduce your Virgo, help her to worry less. Keep things fun and light. Bring laughter, she needs it and sometimes forgets that she can. They don’t generally like off the wall, crazy experiences or large crowds. Keep dates traditional and old fashioned (dinner and theater) until you learn more about her. Virgo women love nature so invite her for a weekend away in the country or hiking in the mountains. Let her see you as the person she can relax with and find freedom from the mind that is always running. Use your time as friends to learn her limits; it will help you make a better partner later.
As much as you may want to, don’t rush her in anything. By now you will see what a gem she truly is and will want to take it to the next level. Let the friendship naturally grow to love, she will let you know when you get there. A Virgo love needs a little time to develop. As in all things, she will analyze every step along the way to make sure its perfection. As a result do be surprised if she seems hesitant and stand-offish. She will seem that way until she’s comfortable with a partner. So when in public, keep displays of affection to a minimum. Wait to show cooing love until you get her home.